Advent Project – Day 15: Losers


I don’t feel the need to justify or defend my faith by forwarding memes because usually that means I have to put down one group to defend mine. By my standards of my faith, that’s not right. But every once in a while, one shows up that speaks to me. I’m still not likely to pass it on, but I might save it in the Reflection Incubator for such an occasion as this.

The “Don’t forget to hate refugees” is one such meme. I have people in my social circles, who, for the whole year, talk about how awful it is to support refugees and help people who need it, and then parade out their (in their minds) superlative faith example by talking about the reason for the season. They gleefully spread misinformation about funding policy, and there’s no convincing them that this previous sentence applies to them. Sadly, they don’t see the irony.

I read an advent message this weekend that talked about Life’s Losers and the journey of advent by Cardinal  Luis Antonio G. Tagle. Rather than try to summarize it for you, I’mma just add an excerpt here:

If you look at Christ’s birth and death with today’s eyes, you could think he was a loser; born in a stable and thirty-three years later crucified by his own people like a common criminal. 

Despite his lowly birth and his humiliating and agonising death, through the events in his life, this man of very humble origins revolutionised how we see the poor and marginalised, how we think of power and who we deem to be “winners” and “losers” in our world. 

Christ’s journeys – while in the womb, during his life as a preacher, to the cross, to his heavenly Father – tell us about how to face our own journeys as individuals and communities today. 

Imagine yourself on a journey 

Let us just take a moment this Advent to reflect on how many times we see news images of pregnant migrant women crossing deserts or getting off unsafe boats, with no home to go to. 

Can we imagine ourselves being on their journey or on Joseph and Mary’s migrant journey to Bethlehem? The town was not equipped to welcome or accommodate them. It could not offer the care a pregnant woman needed. The Holy Family was one family too many for this small place. 

Can we put ourselves in the shoes of the shepherds who went to visit the Christ child? They were uneducated outcasts in their society and yet the angels appeared to them, not to a rich landowner, and said, “Do not be afraid.” 

The human response might be to hide away in fear when something unexpected and unexplained happens, but the shepherds went to look for the child and then they spread the Good News to everyone about what they saw. 

We are all called on journeys. 

Like Jesus, Mary and Joseph, the Shepherds and the Magi, we are called on journeys which require strength, perseverance, humanity, wisdom and courage. 

On these journeys, we meet people who we may be tempted to prematurely label or judge as a “winner” or a “loser” in life, without knowing their full story nor understanding their significance to our lives. 

The one person who does not appear to go on a journey in the Nativity is King Herod. He stays in the security of his palace and gives orders to kill all boy children in Bethlehem. He tries to keep hold of his kingdom by using his power to spread fear and mistrust. 

The Holy Family again draws the “loser” card and becomes a refugee family in Egypt. 

When Jesus as an adult tells us “the kingdom of God is within you”, he is asking us to open our eyes to a new way of seeing a world where there are no people who are considered “losers”. 

It is in the small and filthy places where our kings are born, not in palaces. The poorest and most marginalised people in our societies deliver true messages of hope to us. 

Expand the horizons of your heart this Advent 

We [urge] the whole world to “Share the Journey” with migrants and refugees. The first step is quite simply to see the other person in their full God-given dignity and not look away in fear, prejudice or hatred. 

Extra credit:

Cardinal Tagle’s Advent Message (in it’s entirety)

2 thoughts on “Advent Project – Day 15: Losers

  1. Very well done! And on a personal note, I was pondering what feels like my failed life–definitely having a blue-gray Christmas holiday season. As a Bible Christian, I have to believe that I don’t see everything…don’t have the eyes of God, who sees the Redeemed, His children, quite differently than others see us…or as we see ourselves. How can anyone who loves God, and knows deep down inside that they are loved by God, have a failed life? Circumstances are not “who” we are, nor are unmet goals, unrealized dreams… I’ve gone off on a rambling tangent here, so sorry 🙂 May HE bless you and your family most abundantly ❤


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